Brenda and her mommy and my mother in
law which I always considered her to be
anyway
law which I always considered her to be
anyway
The wedding crasher in orange and her side
kick in stripes!
kick in stripes!
I could not get them to smile so I told them that they sure had some weird looking
legs!
Left to right, Laura Tucker on her way to college and her sister Leia and mother of two Cinder Tucker all
of Dover Oklahoma, Mrs Way behind Brenda and Aunt Aubring behind Bill, Cheryl Boles beside her
mom Aubring Boles and last but not least Lavada " Sis" Watson who works with Brenda at the Holiday
Inn. Note Sis is 72 years old and one of the most fittest people that I know,she watches what she
eats,rides cross country on A bicycle and can work circles around any twenty year old!
legs!
Left to right, Laura Tucker on her way to college and her sister Leia and mother of two Cinder Tucker all
of Dover Oklahoma, Mrs Way behind Brenda and Aunt Aubring behind Bill, Cheryl Boles beside her
mom Aubring Boles and last but not least Lavada " Sis" Watson who works with Brenda at the Holiday
Inn. Note Sis is 72 years old and one of the most fittest people that I know,she watches what she
eats,rides cross country on A bicycle and can work circles around any twenty year old!
Married!
Brenda and I where married on
august 12th of this year at 6:00
pm at our house on Reck Rd in
Wilson,Oklahoma.
Brenda and I had talked about
getting married not to long
after we had met but because
of circumstances I kept putting
it off and let me repeat this"I
KEPT PUTTING IT OFF"
Because of things that I have
done back home in Arkansas
and in Oklahoma after I got
here, some I had told Brenda
about and some I did not.
I had gotten A girl pregnant
back home and was paying
child support and was behind
on my payments and the first 5
years I was here in Oklahoma I
did not file A Oklahoma tax
return which ended up costing
us 5 times more than what it
would have if I had been more
responsible, but in know way
was this Brenda's fault in
anyway!
One day about 2 weeks before
Christmas, I started getting
phone calls from all over town
that we had checks bouncing
and we knew we had the
money in the bank to cover any
check that we had wrote so I
called the bank to see what
was going on and was told that
we where way overdrawn and
when I talked to A manager I
found out why, the state of
Arkansas had sucked out all of
the money out of our joint
account because of the back
child support that I was behind
on and needless to say Bill did
not have the Christmas that we
had planed on that year.
My way of thinking back then
was that if this could be done
with us not being married and
having different last names I
could just imagine what they
could do if we where married
and had the last name and
back then being the
irresponsible person I was and
on top of that being worldly and
wanting all the worldly things
like big screen televisions, new
cars, video machines,
boats,eating out every night
just to mention A few things
that I was not ready to give up.
THE BOTTOM LINE IS I WAS
JUST BEING IRRESPONSIBLE!
The back child support was
paid off about this time last
year and the back tax's was
paid off in December of last
year and if you would like to
get A really good laugh I ended
up paying over $7,000.00 to the
good state of Oklahoma when
if I had followed the rules and
paid the tax's when I was
supposed to I would have only
paid about $1,800.00. WHAT A
WASTE!
Some of you are asking why
am I telling you this well maybe
it is just something that I want
to get off my chest but I was
asked if Brenda and I was
married and Bill was my blood
child last week before the fund
raiser and the answer to the
married part is yes we are now
and yes Bill has always been!
To this day I have not figured
out what this has to do with
baking A cake or pie or helping,
donating to A cause to help
save someones life and when
it comes down to it married or
not married, I am just A human
being that who needs help to
survive but anyway here is
your answer and just in case
you maybe asking, we did not
get married to please anyone
but ourselves and our Lord
Jesus Christ but I guess this is
just like anything else, which is
there is politics in just about
everything and you can not
please everyone all the time!
In ending I say to Brenda and
Bill and to my maker Jesus
Christ please forgive me!
R.L.
august 12th of this year at 6:00
pm at our house on Reck Rd in
Wilson,Oklahoma.
Brenda and I had talked about
getting married not to long
after we had met but because
of circumstances I kept putting
it off and let me repeat this"I
KEPT PUTTING IT OFF"
Because of things that I have
done back home in Arkansas
and in Oklahoma after I got
here, some I had told Brenda
about and some I did not.
I had gotten A girl pregnant
back home and was paying
child support and was behind
on my payments and the first 5
years I was here in Oklahoma I
did not file A Oklahoma tax
return which ended up costing
us 5 times more than what it
would have if I had been more
responsible, but in know way
was this Brenda's fault in
anyway!
One day about 2 weeks before
Christmas, I started getting
phone calls from all over town
that we had checks bouncing
and we knew we had the
money in the bank to cover any
check that we had wrote so I
called the bank to see what
was going on and was told that
we where way overdrawn and
when I talked to A manager I
found out why, the state of
Arkansas had sucked out all of
the money out of our joint
account because of the back
child support that I was behind
on and needless to say Bill did
not have the Christmas that we
had planed on that year.
My way of thinking back then
was that if this could be done
with us not being married and
having different last names I
could just imagine what they
could do if we where married
and had the last name and
back then being the
irresponsible person I was and
on top of that being worldly and
wanting all the worldly things
like big screen televisions, new
cars, video machines,
boats,eating out every night
just to mention A few things
that I was not ready to give up.
THE BOTTOM LINE IS I WAS
JUST BEING IRRESPONSIBLE!
The back child support was
paid off about this time last
year and the back tax's was
paid off in December of last
year and if you would like to
get A really good laugh I ended
up paying over $7,000.00 to the
good state of Oklahoma when
if I had followed the rules and
paid the tax's when I was
supposed to I would have only
paid about $1,800.00. WHAT A
WASTE!
Some of you are asking why
am I telling you this well maybe
it is just something that I want
to get off my chest but I was
asked if Brenda and I was
married and Bill was my blood
child last week before the fund
raiser and the answer to the
married part is yes we are now
and yes Bill has always been!
To this day I have not figured
out what this has to do with
baking A cake or pie or helping,
donating to A cause to help
save someones life and when
it comes down to it married or
not married, I am just A human
being that who needs help to
survive but anyway here is
your answer and just in case
you maybe asking, we did not
get married to please anyone
but ourselves and our Lord
Jesus Christ but I guess this is
just like anything else, which is
there is politics in just about
everything and you can not
please everyone all the time!
In ending I say to Brenda and
Bill and to my maker Jesus
Christ please forgive me!
R.L.
When Brenda and I talked about getting married, I felt that we should try
and keep this as low key as possible, with just Bill and Mrs Way and aunt
Aubring and of course Rev Butler and with our house being just 925 sq ft it
don't take but just A few people and you got A full house but as you will
see below as one of the ladies said this wedding got crashed!
Brenda said she only told one person at her work and her mom and I know
I did not tell anyone.
To our friends out there and the rest of the family I wish I would have done
this differently but I still don't see where we would have put everyone.
In defense of Brenda and why she looks tired, it's because she is, she had
worked all day and the days she had off in the last two months was to drive
me to Oklahoma City for Doctors appointments!
Check out these pictures below of the party crashers!
Left Click On Picture To Enlarge Scroll Down
and keep this as low key as possible, with just Bill and Mrs Way and aunt
Aubring and of course Rev Butler and with our house being just 925 sq ft it
don't take but just A few people and you got A full house but as you will
see below as one of the ladies said this wedding got crashed!
Brenda said she only told one person at her work and her mom and I know
I did not tell anyone.
To our friends out there and the rest of the family I wish I would have done
this differently but I still don't see where we would have put everyone.
In defense of Brenda and why she looks tired, it's because she is, she had
worked all day and the days she had off in the last two months was to drive
me to Oklahoma City for Doctors appointments!
Check out these pictures below of the party crashers!
Left Click On Picture To Enlarge Scroll Down
Myself, Brenda and Reverend Jane "Sis"
Butler of Ringling, Ok formerly Miss Jane
Whatley of Wilson, Ok
Butler of Ringling, Ok formerly Miss Jane
Whatley of Wilson, Ok
Now we all have the same last name.
Myself, Brenda and Bill
Myself, Brenda and Bill
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